{"id":1285,"date":"2024-08-11T06:32:53","date_gmt":"2024-08-11T06:32:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sweetrealist.com.ng\/?p=1285"},"modified":"2024-08-11T06:32:55","modified_gmt":"2024-08-11T06:32:55","slug":"how-gossip-would-have-cost-woman-her-happy-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sweetrealist.com.ng\/index.php\/2024\/08\/11\/how-gossip-would-have-cost-woman-her-happy-home\/","title":{"rendered":"How Gossip Would have cost woman her happy home"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&#8220;Nne, you won&#8217;t believe what I&#8217;m seeing right now! I&#8217;m sitting here, watching your husband with another woman at an eatery near my house,&#8221; she said to her friend over the phone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;They&#8217;re laughing and writing things down. It looks like she&#8217;s trying to get money from him,&#8221; she added.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Aaaah! That can&#8217;t be my husband,&#8221; her friend replied. &#8220;He&#8217;s the most faithful man I know. 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